Tuesday, July 8, 2008

Kaney is THREE!!!


Kane (better known as Kaney to those who love and adore him) is officially three! With two birthday parties under his belt and a corner of the living room piled with toys and clothes, my baby boy makes it clear that he is no longer a baby. Although I have known it for some time, it is still bittersweet. On his actual birthday, which was July 1st, we were at my parents' house getting the AC fixed in my van. My brother and his family were out of town for his big birthday bash on Sunday the 6th, so we had a little pre-party at Nan and Pap's Monday night for Kane and my nephew Ethan, who share a birthday. You can't tell in the picture, but Monday he was fevered and sluggish all day. He even slept through his cake and ice cream that evening. The fever broke in the night, though, and by the time his birthday rolled around, he was feeling better. So although he missed the "party," he played and opened his presents on his birthday.

Kane chose to have a dinosaur birthday party this year. In a non-thinking moment, I asked him what kind of cake he would want to have at his party. I was expecting his answer to be blueberry, because he wants blueberries in absolutely everything. But a three-year-old's mind never works the way we expect it to, and instead he answered (with gusto), "DINOSAUR!" After some thinking, I asked if he would settle for a mountain to put his little dinosaurs on, and in the end we decided on a volcano cake. Of course, the dinos had to be moved far from the strawberry and apricot spreadable-fruit lava so they would be safe. I had a blast making it, and everyone enjoyed eating it. Definitely worth that non-thinking moment. Their imaginations inspire me.

We had fun activities outside, including a scavenger hunt with hidden dinosaurs all over the backyard, and dinosaur bones hidden in the sandbox, which the kids had to dig out with their dinosaur sand chompers to get the full skeleton assembled. Here you see Baylee, the little girl we babysit for, our niece Serena, Kane and Bella hard at work digging for dinosaur bones.

Then there was swimming and playing on the swing set, which distracted from the scavenger hunt. But it didn't surprise me. Our backyard is so much fun, with a swing set, trampoline, pool, and sand box that it's bound to distract anyone!




The only ones able to apply themselves enough to finish the scavenger hunt were Bella (with the help of her Nanny) and my husband's two youngest brothers, Mike and Jesse. They all tied and finished at the same time!









Then of course there were gifts to be opened. If you don't know already (I think it may be common knowledge), the tongue has to be positioned between the lips, at just the right angle, to properly open birthday presents. But it was worth all the hard work for all the gifts he got! From clothes to roaring/walking dinos and squirt guns to brand-new dinosaur sheets and curtains (made by Nanny), he really made out! All in all it was a perfect, warm, sunny, fun-outside, blast-of-a-birthday-party kind of day. Every time we go to my Mom and Dad's house and go for a walk or do something fun like that, Daddy says to the kids, "You know what we just did? We just made more memories!" Of course, Bella has to argue with him that they aren't memories yet, because they just happened, and won't turn into memories until tomorrow! But we definitely made some memories on Sunday!

Monday, July 7, 2008

FINALLY A START!



Okay, I am finally taking the plunge into starting this blog off. I have fretted over how to start it, when to find time to start it, and whether I will be able to keep it up correctly for too long now, which has fed into my self-doubt and added to my fretting. NO MORE! One of my biggest goals with this blog is self-realization. I finally filled up and organized my Flickr site and in looking at all of the pictures of my beautiful babies, I realized that it was helping me to forget about the frustration of the day and see how wonderful my life and my children really are. Now I have that same expectation for this blog. I believe that I need that constant reality-check to take me away from the hubbub of everyday existence and out into the broader picture. And that in turn makes me a better person, a more confident woman, and a stronger and more loving mother. Of course, now that I have realized this, I am forced to uphold myself to these new standards. This is the true reason for my hesitation in beginning this blog. Once you have a higher standard, you have the possibility of veering away from it and creating disappointment. But I have to conquer that fear and do something to better myself, so here it is... My betterment at hand.
So now for those who happen upon this blog and do not know me, I will start this off with a short blurb of me. I am a Christian, wife and mother of 3, first and foremost. My babes are Bella, 4 3/4, Kane, 3 (and 5 days), and Maxwell, now 6 1/2 months. All other details on that can and will come as needed. I am an artist, a free-lance writer, an amateur photographer, and a naturalist. At least that's what I think of myself. I am also the wife of a busy businessman who is only home on Sundays for right now, so if you will excuse me, I have some much needed Mama/Papa time to get to! Soon I will post pictures, especially of Kane's wonderful Dinosaur Birthday Bash that we hosted today. For now I leave you with my Three Shining Stars on this Independence Day, July 4th, 2008 - first as they are happy and smiling, second how they are when that inevitably starts to melt down...